Monthly Archives: April 2012

The Portrayal of Loss in The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao

Junot Diaz's Pulitzer Prize-winning novel manages to put death in a beautiful light

***This post contains spoilers*** As its title suggests, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao tells the life story of a young individual, up until his death. In fact, Junot Diaz‘s 2007 novel contains many deaths, but I’m going to examine … Continue reading

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Exploring Grief, Loss, Death and Dying

Bloggers exploring the end-of-life through poetry, art, and prose.

Exploring Death This anonymous blogger created the blog entitled SarSaparillameliSSa to explore her world through photography and the written word. “The Tree that Bleeds” is a poem dedicated to exploring death. Here’s an excerpt: Long sunset shadows chill his bones. … Continue reading

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What is Digital death? An Interview with Andreas Jacob

"Digital death" and end-of-life planning in the 21st century

What happens to our email accounts, e-banking, Facebook pages when we die? Increasingly, information assets companies like DSwiss are providing an easy solution. Continue reading

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Why Can’t You Kill Off a Great Character?

A look into the pretend death of Kenny Powers from Eastbound & Down

If you’re a fan of Eastbound & Down, then you know what happened two weeks ago: Kenny Powers died and then he didn’t.  In the Season 3 and series finale, we watched as Kenny (played by Danny McBride) finally made … Continue reading

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“Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit, what a ride!’”

-Mavis Leyrer

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Funeral Potatoes: Origins and Recipe

My family recipe for the savory side dish.

For years, my Wisconsin family has enjoyed the hardy dish we call “hash brown casserole,” but I’ve recently learned something interesting about its true origin. The casserole typically consists of hash browns or cubed potatoes, cheddar or Parmesan cheese, onions, … Continue reading

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Letter to Suzette from an MD at UCSF Hospital

Dr. Dawn Gross reached out to SevenPonds to help find someone to vigil at the bedside of a dying patient who had no family

Hello Suzette, I want to thank you again for all that you did so immediately on behalf of a total stranger! Though none of your attempted connections came through directly the world is small and intention powerful so my patient … Continue reading

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H.I.V. Prevention Justice Alliance Joins Caring Across Generations Coalition

Changing the Way We Care in This Country

New York – The H.I.V. Prevention Justice Alliance announced April 17th that they will be joining the new movement, Caring Across Generations, a national coalition of organizations including women, disability rights, older adult, worker, community, youth, student and caregiver organizations.  … Continue reading

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“Life’s a voyage that’s homeward bound.”

-Herman Melville

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Seeing the Beauty in Both Life and Death

William Butler Yeats inspires readers with "The Lake Isle of Innisfree"

When I took my “Literature in the 20th Century” course at my university, the professor of the class called William Butler Yeats’s “The Lake Isle of Innisfree” one of the most beautiful poems she had ever read; an article I … Continue reading

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8 Factors That Determine the Top 10 Hospitals in the U.S.

My experience with the 7th top rated hospital, UCSF

Let’s start by looking at the best hospitals from the vantage point of the U.S. News and World Report. The 8 factors for ranking hospital standards are… Continue reading

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Three Buildings With One Singular Message

Inappropriate Holocaust and Nazi references in design of buildings, particularly crematoriums

Woodland Crematorium is a very popular Swedish tourist stop but also has a similar design to that of Zeppelin Field, the Nazi’s party rally grounds. A comparison of three buildings and the history behind them reveal the inappropriate design of a this famous crematorium – a crematorium no less. Continue reading

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How do ceremonies aid in the grieving process? An Interview with Kristine Bentz of Sweetgrass Ceremonies

How rituals and ceremonies aid in the grieving process

Kristine Bentz is a Life Cycle Celebrant and Home Funeral Guide, certified by the Celebrant Foundation and Institute. She holds an M.S. in Public Service Management, with an emphasis in servant leadership. Kelly: First of all, could you tell us … Continue reading

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Film Review: Garden State (2004)

Loss of mother leads to self-discovery in this quirky indie film

Garden State begins with protagonist Andrew Largeman (Zach Braff) being informed via phone message that his paraplegic mother has died after a tragic bathtub accident. The death serves as a sort of trigger to the rest of the action: when … Continue reading

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Book Review: “Making Toast”

The beautiful, tragic story of a grandfather losing his daughter

In his 2010 memoir, Making Toast, Roger Rosenblatt paints a beautiful portrait of what it means to lose someone too soon.  After his daughter, Amy, dies suddenly of a rare heart abnormality, Rosenblatt and his wife move in with their … Continue reading

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Coachella Honoring the Dead

Coachella Announces "Hologram Lineup" Featuring Only Dead Musicians

The music festival, Coachella honors our dead in quite the interesting and creative way. Continue reading

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Advance Directives Let You Take Control at the End-of-Life

National Healthcare Decisions Day Helps U.S. Make and Share Decisions About End-of-Life Care

Do you know what kind of medical care you would want if you were too ill or injured to express your wishes? How do you ensure that your wishes — or the wishes of your loved ones — will be … Continue reading

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“There is no grief like the grief that does not speak.”

-Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

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The Significance of Reflection

Joy Harjo's poem shows how looking back can guide us through the future

Joy Harjo is unique in that, not only is she an excellent writer, but she is a musician and a performer as well. That’s probably why her poems, including “Remember,” are so lyrical and seem to trip off the tongue. … Continue reading

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A Memorial You Can See From the Heavens

Rancher in Argentina Designs His Ranch to Fulfill his Late Wife's Dream

If you’re set to fly over General Levalle, Argentina any time soon, keep an eye out for this spectacular design surrounding this family’s ranch. The gigantic guitar made of trees was the dream of Graciela Yraizoz, the matron of the … Continue reading

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