Category Archives: Lending Insight


Revisiting The American Way of Death: Jessica Mitford’s Exposé of the Funeral Industry

Re-reading Mitford’s classic on death, dignity and profiteering

Gleefully, Jessica Mitford exposes the funeral industry in The American Way of Death Revisited, a smart, biting work of book-length reportage. First published in 1963, she updated the text in 1996 shortly before her death, leaving readers with a final … Continue reading

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“Field of Dreams” by Phil Alden Robinson

This classic sports movie is a surprisingly insightful look at life and death through the lens of the American pastime, baseball.

“Field of Dreams,” the sports fantasy film directed by Phil Alden Robinson, might not be explicitly about death — but it certainly presents an inspiring perspective on it.  As the film opens we meet Ray, a struggling farmer played by … Continue reading

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Movie Review: “Come See Me In The Good Light,” Produced by Tig Notaro

A film about love, cancer, death, and poetry evokes ample tears while being incredibly life-affirming.

The 2025 film, “Come See Me In The Good Light,” follows poet/activist Andrea Gibson (whose pronouns are “they/them”) and their partner Megan Falley as they navigate the time Gibson had left after receiving a diagnosis of terminal ovarian cancer. 

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“Demolition” Movie Review: Jean-Marc Vallée’s Portrait of a Widower Leveled by Grief

A successful investment banker dismantles his old life and builds a new one after the sudden death of his wife.

“Demolition”, directed by Jean-Marc Vallée, is a quirky dramedy that explores the complex landscape of grief, sudden loss, and emotional reconstruction. The film follows Davis Mitchell, played by Jake Gyllenhaal, a successful investment banker whose life is destroyed when he … Continue reading

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“A Monster Calls” Movie Review: J.A. Bayona Looks at Terminal Illness and Anticipatory Grief from a Child’s Perspective

The film uses an intriguing dark fantasy storytelling element to explore the complexities of a child’s grief for his seriously ill mother

In the 2016 film “A Monster Calls,” directed by J. A. Bayona, a 12-year-old child, Conor O’Malley, portrayed by Lewis MacDougall, endures a complicated and heartwrenching journey through his mother’s terminal illness. Based on Patrick Ness’s novel of the same … Continue reading

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“Ordinary People” Movie Review: Redford Directorial Debut Explores Coping With Loss

Movie gives us an intimate look at a grieving family as they try to cope with loss.

In Robert Redford’s 1980 directorial debut, a wealthy family deals with coping with loss as they struggle with the death of the oldest son, Buck Jarrett. “Ordinary People” explores how grief can affect people differently, as well as how losing … Continue reading

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