Author Archives: Suzette Sherman (Founder, SevenPonds)


 How we die is, truthfully, the most important conversation we are not having.

- Michael Hebb
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“Like a River” Is a Painfully Real Memorial Service Song for Daughters Who Have Lost Their Mother

Carly Simon sings honestly about the death of her mother and the sad details, including settling the estate, that followed

One of my personal favorites, Carly Simon’s song “Like a River”, expresses the depth of Carly’s love following the death of her mother. Carly sings openly of “death’s struggle,” then peace and the subsequent sad details of settling the estate … Continue reading

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A New Movement Helps Push Open the Conversation on Death

The website "Let's Have Dinner and Talk About Death" offers ways to break bread and start talking about end of life topics

Michael Hebb, of the University of Washington, has a passion for getting the conversation going on death. He was on a train from Portland to Seattle and happened to sit in the diner car with two doctors — all were … Continue reading

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My Memories of Elmore Leonard

Crime fiction writer Elmore Leonard was a fun man who was definitely not your usual guy

I feel a real need to write about the death of crime fiction novelist Elmore Leonard, who passed away yesterday at his home in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan. I had the pleasure of meeting Elmore Leonard years ago at Balthazar Korab’s home … Continue reading

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The PBS Documentary “Homegoings” Explores African-American Funeral Customs

What is not fairly revealed is how their remaining preference for traditional funeral services are typically over-the-top costly

Quite frankly, I was a bit peeved to see recent critics bestow accolades on “Homegoings”, a PBS documentary film by director Christine Turner. The film’s pitch states: “Through the eyes of funeral director Isaiah Owens, the beauty and grace of African-American … Continue reading

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“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

-Buddha
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