Wishing Everyone a Lovely Christmas Season

May your holiday season be peaceful and filled with love

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“Songbird” by Fleetwood Mac

Christine McVie's open-ended song can celebrate both living and lost loved ones
Fleetwood Mac 'Rumours' album cover with Mick Fleetwood and Stevie Nicks.

“Songbird” appears on Fleetwood Mac’s seminal record, Rumours
Credit: American Songwriter, Fleetwood Mac

Highlighting an eternal, selfless love, Christine McVie, Fleetwood Mac member and composer of “Songbird,” asserts that the song is about no one specific and nothing in particular. This makes it a bit of a blank canvas when it comes to reminiscing and celebrating love or mourning a loss, whether romantic, familial, spiritual or platonic. In an interview, McVie cheekily said of the song, “A lot of people play it at their weddings or at bar mitzvahs or at their dog’s funeral. It’s universal. It’s about you and nobody else. It’s about you and everybody else.”

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An Inspiring Quote From Roy T. Bennett About Sharing Love and Spreading Joy

Plus a holiday themed flower heart from SevenPonds

Red and green flower heart with inspiring quote

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How to Comfort A Dying Loved One

End-of-life expert Dr. Marianne Matzo explains some simple ways to offer solace
A portrait of Dr. Marianne Matzo, who brings comfort to the dying.

Courtesy of Dr. Marianne Matzo

Dr. Marianne Matzo first became interested in working with the dying during her Ph.D. program, when she was exploring whether people were considering long-term care and how they would pay for it. A friend told her that she would commit suicide before entering long-term care. This statement inspired Matzo’s dissertation on the prevalence of nurse-assisted suicide, which led her to explore nursing education in end-of-life care.

Matzo, who now holds a Ph.D. in gerontology, worked as a nurse and nurse practitioner in oncology and palliative care for more than 40 years. She is currently the executive director of Everyone Dies, a nonprofit that produces educational podcasts about end of life. She also co-wrote a textbook on palliative care and recently published a children’s book about death. Matzo agreed to speak with SevenPonds about some simple ways to comfort a dying loved one.

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Our Annual Seven Holiday Gifts for Someone Who Is Grieving, 2024 Edition

Gracious gifts that spread love and beauty

The holidays have a way of making loss feel even more pronounced. If you have friends or family members (or you yourself) who are feeling the impact of death this season — whether fresh or long-standing — a thoughtful gift for grieving loved ones goes a long way toward reminding them they are not alone.

Whether the person you’re supporting appreciates cozy comforts, delicious treats, beautiful housewares and art, or words of wisdom around grief, the following choices span the gamut while satisfying most every budget. And, of course (and best of all), the feeling of being cared for is priceless.

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“The Funeral” by Matt James

A child’s eye view of loss: exploring the curiosity and wonder of a first funeral

“The Funeral” by Matt James is an illustrated children’s book that offers a tender, curious and at times playful exploration of a young girl’s first experience with death. The story follows Norma, a school-aged girl about to attend her first funeral — that of her great-uncle Frank. At the outset, Norma is not particularly concerned with the weight of the occasion. Instead, she’s excited by the prospect of a day off from school and the chance to spend time with her favorite cousin, Ray. As the day unfolds, however, we see the funeral through Norma’s eyes — not as a somber rite, but as a curious, somewhat bewildering event full of small moments and mundane details.

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