Author Archives: Suzette Sherman (Founder, SevenPonds)

From The Old American Way of Death to the New American Way

A fan sends me a strong message to please examine the funeral business

As SevenPonds grows, I continue to be deeply touched by fans who reach out to me in a multitude of ways.  I receive emails, calls, letters and some even approach me at conferences and events. I cannot begin to tell … Continue reading

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Pondering the Last Taboo: Death & Dying

An informal chat with SevenPonds: Let's open the conversation on end-of-life!

Today, April 29th from 5:30 to 7:30, SevenPonds is hosting our very first for-the-public event here at our San Francisco office! We’ll be discussing: * What is advance care directives, POLST, a DNR? * What is a heart will (ethical … Continue reading

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Lotta’s Fountain and the 1906 San Francisco Earthquake

A San Francisco landmark is a poignant reminder of the past

Today marks the 107th anniversary of the Great 1906 San Francisco earthquake. Every year on this day, residents of San Francisco gather around Lotta’s fountain (located at the intersection of Market, Geary and Kearny) to commemorate that moment of silence, right … Continue reading

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 A Unique San Francisco Support Group for Children’s Grief “Josie’s Place”

Announces an evening benefitting grieving children and families entitled "Hope Springs"

More than a year ago I became aware of Josie’s Place, a San Francisco Bay Area support group for children and teens who have lost a loved one. The founder, Patricia Murphy, lost her own mother when she was a … Continue reading

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My Sunday Making Hearts With Page Hodel

Beautiful hearts made of all kinds of things in loving memory of Madalene

This past Sunday, I had the amazing experience of taking part in Page Hodel’s weekly ritual of making hearts in San Francisco. More than 8 years ago, Page Hodel moved into a new apartment in San Francisco when she met … Continue reading

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Monty Python – The Funniest Joke in the World

A lethal joke from which people died laughing

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John Donaldson Writes Us A Wonderful Note

Another heartwarming letter from a SevenPonds reader

Good morning Suzette, I found your website when I googled a quote I was looking for, spent a little time looking around and posted a comment on one of the blog posts. Very nice site and something that needs to get greater … Continue reading

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For Those Who Have Lost A Spouse Today

They take pleasure in talking about their dead husband or wife in a loving way

It’s been a long month with a lot going on here at SevenPonds. Goodness, it’s all I can do to keep up with the influx of our growth! On top of the sheer workload, I’m also dating a wonderful man, … Continue reading

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Beautiful Memorial Song: “I will always love you,” By Whitney Houston

Whitney Houston's most famous love song played at her own funeral

Originally written and performed by Dolly Parton, “I will always love you” was shot into international fame in 1992 when  performed by Whitney Houston in the blockbuster movie, ” The Bodyguard.” Crazy enough, twenty years later, “I will always love you” was … Continue reading

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Beautiful Memorial Song: “A Candle in The Wind,” By Elton John

A song that deals with the loss of a national celebrity also can be interchanged to deal with the loss of a loved one

Back in 1997, the world watched as Elton John sang and played the piano at the unexpected funeral of the beloved Princess Diana. He had transformed the words in one of his most hauntingly beautiful tunes, “Candle in the Wind”, … Continue reading

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How Did SevenPonds Come to Be?

We revisit our beginning

It’s been two years at SevenPonds since we launched our first blog post and it’s hard to believe we have arrived at our second anniversary already! What a wild ride it has been. I cannot begin to express how heartwarming … Continue reading

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Speaking of Romantic Valentine’s Day Stories — it Starts With Sex and Then Love Kicks in

In the end we are left with the memories of the most romantic love letters ever

Oh yes,

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A Look at the Funeral Industry Business

CNBC schedules a one-hour special "Death: It's a Living"

Tonight at 9pm ET/PT, CNBC is doing their first one-hour special documentary that takes an in-depth look at death as an industry.  In our society, the funeral industry business remains largely a mystery, and we hope CNBC’s “Death: It’s a Living” will demystify … Continue reading

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Letter from SevenPonds’ reader

SevenPonds' reader Cindy Garner expressed her thoughts on a new reality TV show, "Best Funeral Ever"

We recently did a blog post on Best Funeral Ever, a TV show based in Dallas, Texas. One of our readers, Cindy Garner, expressed her opinion on the show: “I watched it last Sunday night and, although the families seemed … Continue reading

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Cool Memorial Songs: American Idol Kris Allen Sings An Up Beat Rock Song

He belts out with fervor "Gotta live like we're dying"

“Live Like We’re Dying” is not your usual memorial song. The eighth season American Idol winner, 27 year old Kris Allen, almost screams as he sings his Live Like We’re Dying to instill an in the moment rush to grab … Continue reading

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After Two Years of a Lot of Hard Work, Including Existing in a Mood-Altering State

This startup founder returns refreshed with a new perspective on life

As you may have noticed by the lack of my recent Sharing Suzette posts, I took a writing hiatus the month of December. Ok, ok, I admit it was longer but I had good reason. This is officially our two-year … Continue reading

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Happy New Year’s Eve

As we bid farewell to 2012 we welcome the new beginnings of 2013!

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On This Christmas Holiday

Everyone at SevenPonds extends Christmas wishes to all!

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Our Beautiful Memorial Music: “Hey Hey My My”, by Neil Young

He sings that once you're gone, you can't come back

We all know rock and roll can never die and we can count on Neil Young to employ his wonderful lyrics to speak to us about the important things in life — including death.  A classic icon of the Boomer … Continue reading

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Have You Considered What to Read Before you Die?

A book about 1001 movies to see before you die nicely highlights the greatest moments of the Boomer generation

According to my earliest memory when considering my own death, albeit far in the future, I was still a child at the time. I had no fear of the possibility of dying and assumed I’d go in a most natural … Continue reading

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