In Remembrance

This poem is one of celebrant Irene Kane‘s favorite pieces to incorporate into the memorial services she leads; it both speaks to a universal sentiment, and readily lends itself to personalized adaptation.  It reminds me of Suzette’s grandmother’s final words to her.

When I have moved beyond you in the adventure of life,

Gather in some pleasant place

And there remember me with spoken words,

Old and new. Let a tear fall if you will,

But let a smile come quickly

For I have loved the laughter of life.

Do not linger too long with your solemnities,

Go eat, and drink and talk

And when you can—

Follow a woodland trail, climb a high mountain

Sleep beneath the stars, Swim in a cold river

Chew the thoughts of some book that challenges your soul.

Use your hands some bright day

To make a thing of beauty

Or to lift someone’s heavy load.

Though you mention not my name,

Though no thought of me crosses your mind-

I shall be with you

For these have been the realities of life to me.

And when you face some crisis with anguish—

When you walk alone with courage

When you choose the right path

When you give yourself in love

I shall be very close to you

I have followed the valleys,

I have climbed the heights of life.