“Wake Me Up When September Ends” by Green Day

Rock music's take on what it's like to lose a parent at the age of 10

Green Day American idiot album cover emerged as part of the punk rock scene in the Bay Area of California in the 1980s. The front man and lyricist Billie Joe Armstrong has written many of the band’s songs. Armstrong recorded his first song at the age of 5. One of his most personal songs is “Wake Me Up When September Ends,” which was inspired by the loss of Armstrong’s father when the singer was only 10 years old.

Summer has come and passed
The innocent can never last

Wake me up when September ends
Like my father’s come to pass
Seven years has gone so fast

Wake me up when September ends

Armstrong begins his autobiographical song by singing that summer, which often represents vitality and life, is over. His line, “The innocent can never last,” is reminiscent of Robert Frost’s poem “Nothing Gold Can Stay.” To lose a parent at such a young age thrust Armstrong into a maturity he wasn’t ready for.

Armstrong performs the song "Wake Me Up When September Ends

Here comes the rain again
Falling from the stars

Drenched in my pain again
Becoming who we are

As my memory rests
But never forgets what I lost

Wake me up when September ends

Armstrong’s father died of esophageal cancer, and he watched his father suffer through the disease. The chorus of “Wake Me Up When September Ends” recalls the waves of loss that can overwhelm when we remember those we have lost. Various experiences can trigger a mourner to think of their loved one, and grief can be difficult to work through. Certainly a 10-year-old child experiences the trauma of loss in a different way than an adult.

Young boy grieving like Armstrong did when he wrote the song "Wake Me Up When September Ends

Children grieve as intensely as adults.
Credit: The Cove Center for Grieving Children

Samuel Bayer, famous for his work with other rock bands like Nirvana, was tasked with creating the music video for Green Day’s “Wake Me Up when September Ends.” Though the song came from Armstrong’s very real experience, Bayer decided to make the music video about a young man (played by Jamie Bell) who enlists in the military and is separated from his girlfriend (played by Evan Rachel Wood, who he promised to never leave. Armstrong agreed to change the subject matter of the film because the video retained the heartbreak of his terrible loss.

“Wake Me Up When September Ends” debuted in 2005 and became associated with Hurricane Katrina, which struck the Gulf Coast three days before September began. The song resonated with the devastation of the natural disaster and spoke to the people’s desire to fast-forward through the pain of loss. Green Day performed the song on a televised benefit soon after Hurricane Katrina to raise money for relief efforts.

You can view the short film of “Wake Me Up when September Ends” below.

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3 Responses to “Wake Me Up When September Ends” by Green Day

  1. avatar Roger P. James says:

    I lost my mother when I was a 10. She died of stomach cancer. I am up in age now and not a day went by in my life that I do not think of her. Ten is such a young age and I have very few memories of her. The loss was too great for my father and my siblings were in the midst of their own grief. I had no idea she was dying because no one told me. This made it difficult for me. Everyone was having a hard time and so I was given little attention. They just viewed as just a kid. Not true. Children are taking it in more than you can imagine. This song and my life is proof.

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  2. avatar Kathleen Clohessy (Blog Writer, SevenPonds) says:

    Hi Roger,
    Yes, losing a parent as a young child is immensely difficult. Children process grief so differently from adults, and very often (especially years ago) aren’t given the support they need to work through their pain. We carry those wounds with us forever. I’m sorry that has been the case for you as well.

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