On Loss and Absence: Textiles of Mourning and Survival at the Art Institute of Chicago

Fiber art across many centuries and cultures highlights both cultural and personal loss.
memorial pendant depicting close up of an eye

“Memorial Pendant” created during 1800 in England. Eye miniatures like these were sometimes used as memorials, also known as tear jewelry.
Credit: Elizabeth H. Rosenak, Art Institute of Chicago

In Chicago, threads of memory and grief are woven over time in a new exhibit that started in September 2025. Titled “On Loss and Absence: Textiles of Mourning and Survival,” it examines how people have used art, specifically fabric art, to process grief, honor memories, and heal from personal and cultural trauma.

The exhibit at the Art Institute of Chicago features more than 100 works, spanning from ancient to modern, all centered on the themes of remembrance and mourning. These textiles serve as intriguing vessels for resilience across diverse cultures and times.

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Historic French Cemeteries Offer Resting Places Amongst the Famous, But Only To A Select Few

Thirty gravesites were recently made available to Parisians willing to restore abandoned headstones in disrepair, and the response was overwhelming.
Historic tombs line a cobbled pathway through verdant grass and trees

A scenic path through Père-Lachaise Cemetery in Paris
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Paris’s historic cemeteries have been full since the beginning of the 20th century, so burial plots are mostly unavailable for today’s inhabitants. But in April of 2025, the Paris Council came up with a “compromise” between preserving funerary heritage — as it is strictly protected by law — and giving residents of the capital the rare opportunity to be buried within the city walls. The response was greater than city officials expected.

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What Does It Mean to Be Terminally Ill?

A new perspective on terminal illness

 

 looking up at trees as a new perspective of life

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“Everything that’s born has to die” ~ Jonathan Safran Foer

From the moment we are born until we close our eyes for the last time, we walk hand in hand with death. Because we are human, we deny this truth as a matter of course, living our lives as if dying is something that only happens to someone else. We weave stories about the future and, all too often, put our “real lives” on hold until we have time to live the way we want to live.

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The Timing of Death

Finding Meaning in the Mystery

Join SevenPonds each month as Tani Bahti, RN, CT, CHPN offers practical hands-on guidance in an attempt to demystify the dying process. An RN since 1976, Tani has been working to empower families and healthcare professionals to have the best end-of-life experience possible through education and the development of helpful tools and resources. The current Director of Pathways, Tani is also the author of “Dying to Know: Straight Talk about Death & Dying” considered by SevenPonds as one of the most practical books on the topic. According to Founder Suzette Sherman, Tani’s is “the book I will have at the bedside of my dying parents some day, hopefully a very long time from now.”

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Our Monthly Tip: Plan a Secret Santa Gift Exchange to Commemorate a Loved One

Provide the opportunity for guests to share memories and mementos in keeping with the holiday spirit.
A softly lit stack of envelopes and gifts lay under a Christmas Tree for a Secret Santa exchange

A collection of Secret Santa gifts, each with a number attached for guests to
select their special gift one-by-one.
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The holiday season can be especially poignant when it coincides with remembering a loved one who has passed, but it also offers a meaningful opportunity to celebrate their life in a spirit of warmth and togetherness. One thoughtful idea is to incorporate a Secret Santa gift exchange into a Celebration of Life ceremony. By sharing small, heartfelt gifts in your loved one’s honor, you can bring comfort, laughter, and connection to those gathered—just as your loved one might have done. It’s a beautiful way to keep the season’s light alive while cherishing shared memories and the enduring bonds of love.

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Farewell Vessels

My husband’s mysterious death and the beautiful ways we chose to heal

 

Lake Huron

This is Stacy’s story, as told by Aurora Wells, about navigating the loss of her husband, who drowned in lake Huron. Our “Opening Our Hearts” stories are based on people’s real-life experiences with grief and loss. By sharing these experiences, we hope to help our readers feel less alone in their grief, and ultimately aid them in their healing. 

I was at the Toronto Airport customs checkpoint, propping my two-year-old Ivy in the crook of one arm, and filling out paperwork with the other.  My heart stopped at “Marital Status:” — the pen pointed to “Married” like a compass.

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