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Don’t be Mistaken, This Is Indeed a Problem

When you’re sick enough to get a view of death’s door you wonder, why can't doctors just listen?

Last month, I was so insanely ill I was unable to write my Sharing Suzette. What I learned is our hospital system ain’t no HOUSE show. You know that TV show where a group of brilliant doctors, including the illustrious … Continue reading

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What I Know Now

She was suffering complicated grief

When I moved to San Francisco in 2001, I drove east to spend the weekend with my Aunt Loraine in Tracy, California. I had not seen her in well over 2 decades. Since last we had seen each other, her … Continue reading

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Wearing My Grandmother’s Locket: The Real Value of an Antique Beauty

Family jewelry, especially my grandmother's, creates a physical connection between who she was and who I am today

I was thinking the other day about the family jewelry I have had the fortune to have had passed down to me over the years. Not many pieces, really, but I have been lucky to receive at least one piece … Continue reading

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Since When Does Cremation Not Include Fire?

Hey Cremation Association of North America (CANA), what's up with the new definition of "cremation"?

I write this with the greatest of disappointment. As a former CANA (Cremation Association of North America) member for many years, I’m discouraged by the organization having allowed a redefinition of “cremation” to sometimes not include fire. Come on CANA … Continue reading

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Today Is Not Just Any Old Day; It’s One of My Big Birthday Milestones

So I'm celebrating with champagne and my favorite quotes on life

Yup today is June 9th, my birthday, and it’s the first birthday I have ever taken seriously. Am I officially old? Am I taking age too seriously? Perhaps, but what it does come down to is three important thoughts: #1 … Continue reading

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Why Am I Writing About The Film “High Fidelity” On A Blog About End Of Life?

Sadly, today I relate to its exploration of disenfranchised grief and conclude with the film's list of the top 5 songs about death

Today I had a High Fidelity kind of day. The truth is I’ve had a few too many such days this past year. Sadly, I’ve been dealing with disenfranchised grief a lot. It’s not good. For those of you who … Continue reading

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