Memorial Diamonds from Cremated Ashes: Keepsake or Fraud?

Lab-grown diamond companies claim to use the carbon from cremains to create memorial diamonds. Others claim it is impossible to do.
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Lab-grown diamonds made by Washington Diamonds (not memorial diamonds)
Credit: Wikimedia Commons, Washington Diamonds Corporation

For families navigating grief and end-of-life preparations, the idea of transforming a loved one’s cremation ashes into a jewel as precious as a diamond can be a source of comfort. Diamonds are valuable, tangible keepsakes that can symbolize connection and memory.

Over the past two decades, companies have claimed to specialize in “cremation diamonds,” or lab-grown diamonds, advertised as being crafted from the carbon remaining in human ashes.   Continue reading

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Nursing Homes Continue to Provide Substandard Care

New federal reforms may not be enough to improve the dire situation
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Increased infections, hospitalizations and overuse of medications in nursing homes are often attributed to lack of staff to provide quality care.

In the spring of 2022, President Biden announced new federal reforms to improve substandard care plaguing nursing homes across the nation. Their hope is to improve care for more than 1.4 million Medicare and Medicaid recipients, who currently reside in nursing homes throughout the country. Minimum staffing ratios, increased accountability, and public transparency are top priority. But these increased measures may not be enough to ensure residents receive adequate care. Industry leaders contend that the federal plan does not address what is truly to blame. Continued fallout from Covid-19, high staff turnover rates and a lack of funds to increase employee ratios are what they attribute to the cause of poor care.  Continue reading

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“Caoine” by RÓIS 

Channeling an ancient Irish wake tradition into modern music 

Album Cover to “Caoine” by RÓIS an irish wake songOnce a deeply emotive and integral part of Irish and Scottish wakes, keening, the complex and soulful art of women’s vocal lamentation was all but eradicated through the efforts of the church and British colonization. We don’t know exactly what it originally sounded like, as it was largely wiped out before the advent of recorded sound. But RÓIS, a composer, vocalist, multi-instrumentalist and electronic artist  from Fermanagh, Ireland,  certainly seems to be channeling the ancient bean chaointe, or “keening woman,” in her song “Caoine” (the Irish word for keen). 

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“Field of Dreams” by Phil Alden Robinson

This classic sports movie is a surprisingly insightful look at life and death through the lens of the American pastime, baseball.

Field of Dreams,” the sports fantasy film directed by Phil Alden Robinson, might not be explicitly about death — but it certainly presents an inspiring perspective on it. 

As the film opens we meet Ray, a struggling farmer played by Hollywood heartthrob Kevin Costner, who has ploughed a small section of his cornfield in Iowa to build a baseball field because a mysterious voice told him to. “If you build it, they will come…” 

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“Come See Me In The Good Light,” Produced by Tig Notaro

A film about love, cancer, death, and poetry will likely make you cry, but it is still incredibly life-affirming.
Two people laugh together, laying on the floor with their heads resting on a fluffy dog bed alongside three small dogs

Andrea Gibson and Megan Falley laugh together in the trailer for “Come See Me In The Good Light.”
Credit: Apple+TV

The 2025 film, “Come See Me In The Good Light,” follows poet/activist Andrea Gibson (whose pronouns are “they/them”) and their partner Megan Falley as they navigate the time Gibson had left after receiving a diagnosis of terminal ovarian cancer.  Continue reading

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Deathbed Visions as Messages for the Living

The beauty and mystery of deathbed phenomena can give comfort to those left behind

Join SevenPonds each month as Tani Bahti, RN, CT, CHPN, offers practical on-hand guidance to demystify the dying process. As an RN since 1976, Tani has been working to empower families and healthcare professionals to have the best end-of-life experience possible both through education and the development of helpful tools and resources. The current Director of Pathways, Tani is also the author of “Dying to Know, Straight talk about Death and Dying,” considered by SevenPonds as one of the most practical books on the topic. Founder Suzette Sherman says this is “the book I will have at the bedside of my dying parents some day, hopefully a very long time from now.” 

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